I did it and so can you!

by Jennifer Bennett on January 26, 2012

 

“You've all been to the stadium and seen the athletes race. Everyone runs; one wins. Run to win. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that tarnishes and fades. You're after one that's gold eternally.
I don't know about you, but I'm running hard for the finish line. I'm giving it everything I've got. No sloppy living for me! I'm staying alert and in top condition. I'm not going to get caught napping, telling everyone else all about it and then missing out myself.”
 
1 Corinthians 9:24-27
 
Well, I did it! I made the decision this week to once again, get myself back into shape. Honestly, for quite some time now I have felt as though God has been calling me get up and get moving. But truthfully, I kept pushing that “calling” to the side. I would allow everything else to get ahold of my day and before I knew it, another day flashed by with no exercise.
 
You see, back in my younger years I was in great shape. I worked out 6-days a week. I would take part in different classes including spinning, kickboxing, step, etc. I would also spend time running, going up and down stairs, jump roping, working out with weights, etc. Back in the day I was in great shape. And then, I just kinda let myself go.
 
So needless to say, yesterday I got busy once again! My friend Christine and I have made a commitment to wake up at 5:00 am Monday-Friday to get our walk/run in. Our goal is to be able to run a 5K without wanting to puke. Can you relate?
 
And really, I feel as though God has been speaking to me a lot about life in general. If you know me, you know that I love nothing more than helping women become their absolute best so that they can live the life that they were meant for. And really, God has been placing the Proverbs 31 woman on my mind a lot (in case you have missed it, I just released my new free offer: “Your Life Matters: 7-Days to the Proverbs 31 Life Without Burnout, Frustration, or Perfectionism.” Go grab it on the right side of this page)!
 
I have really come to the conclusion that each and every woman can be the Proverbs 31 woman. I know, I can hear some of the grumbling now. But hear me out.
 
When I read about this woman, I can’t help but to see someone who ran the race that was set out before her. She ran it to win! She gave life everything she had and she did it all with excellence. She was running hard for the finish line and she refused to live a sloppy life. She not only stayed alert, but she kept herself in top condition. This was a woman who was on a mission to complete the race that Christ had set before her. Quitting was not an option for her.
 
Today, there is one central question that I want you to focus on: What race has God called you to run? Don’t think about everything in your life that you feel needs improvement, but instead, what one area of life is God calling you to focus on. For me it’s health. God’s been calling me for some time now to get my body in shape so that I too can set about my work vigorously, the work that He has called me to(She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks-Proverbs 31:17). For you, God may be calling you to focus on
 
Your health
Your marriage
Your job
Your calling
Your children
Your home
Your finances
 
Maybe for some of you, you have desperately been trying to lose weight but before you know it, you have given up because you feel as though it can never be done. Or maybe, some of you have been feeling the nudge of God with regards to your finances. God is calling you to live by a budget and to cut back. Or even, some of you may have heard God whisper in your ear that He longs for you to focus on your home; getting things in order so that your life can be one of peace rather than chaos. Whatever it may be, God is calling you to run a race and today, I want you to get crystal clear as to what race He is calling you to.
 
Truthfully, If you want your life to look different, if you want to follow after the calling on your life, you are going to have to get deliberate about it and you are going to have to focus! You have to put some effort behind it! Just as those who run a race have to train for it, you too are going to have to put some effort behind the race that God has called you to. Nothing will just happen “magically.” You have to go after it!
 
Make a decision today to no longer life a “sloppy life.” Choose to run the race that God has called you to with everything you’ve got! Be committed and don’t let anything or anyone stop you! Make the decision today to not miss out on the amazing life God has called you to because you were too busy “napping.” You can be the Proverbs 31 woman; she’s already there-she just needs to come out! Make today the day that she makes her appearance in your life!
 
Believing in YOU!
Jen
 
PS-Share with me here in the comments section below what race God is calling you to run. It would be my honor to pray for you as you give it all you’ve got!
 
PSS-There has been such an amazing response to the FREE 7-day Proverbs 31 series that I’ve got some new things “brewing” in my mind; things that will help you be the Proverbs 31 woman that you were meant to be! I can’t wait to share more with you! 

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When life throws you a curveball…

by Jennifer Bennett on January 23, 2012

 
 
This past weekend, my friend Michelle and I had what would be described as a girl’s weekend. We not only visited the Disney parks, but we had a hotel room where we could just sit, chat, and relax. Honestly, I had been looking forward to this weekend for quite some time.
 
But then all of sudden on Friday evening, I began to feel bad, real bad. After eating dinner, it became quite clear that I was not going to be my normal self.
 
Saturday, we spent the day at the Magic Kingdom with my husband and another friend and while I had fun, I was still hurting. Then Sunday, it just got worse. So much worse that I had to leave the park and crash out for some time at the hotel.
 
Really, this is not what I had planned. Instead of the weekend going as I would have liked it to have gone, my body and schedule were thrown for a loop. Needless to say, I was disappointed.
 
But through this disappointment, God was speaking to me. I couldn’t help but to have this question roaming around in my head…. “how are you going to handle this life interruption….with gratitude or an attitude?”
 
I’m sure you can relate as I imagine that you too have had times in your life where what you had planned, did not go as you had hoped. Instead a curveball was thrown your way. Even more so, some of you may feel as though your life is not quite what you had hoped it would have been; it’s not the life that you would have ordered.
 
Maybe as a child/teenager who you had big dreams and aspirations of what your life would look like and then before you knew it, things got crazy and you found yourself living a life that you had never dreamed of (and I don’t mean this in a good way). Maybe you feel as though your life has had more disappointments than good times. If so, you are not alone. 
 
Today you may be asking, “when things don’t go as planned, what do I do?” You may also be feeling overwhelmed, unappreciated, unlucky, and just plain tired. If there is one thing I want you to know is that deep down inside I know that God has better things for you.
 
So today, let me share with you some tips that will help you get back on your feet so that you can live the life that you were meant for and in turn, see your days filled with joy, strength, energy, and a passion for life!
 
Gratitude or attitude? – For each one of us, we have the choice to choose how we will respond to the things that take place in our lives. We can either choose to have an attitude, thus having a pity party for ourselves, or we can choose to look at the bright side, the good things that are taking place in our lives. No matter who you are or what you have gone through, you will always have the opportunity to choose to focus on the positive. Even if it is just thanking God for your morning caffeine. 
So let me encourage you today to choose gratitude over an attitude.
 
Superwoman anyone? -I don’t know what it is, but as women we tend to get caught up in the thinking that we have to do it all. Can I be honest with you? This is a lie….you do not have to do everything on your own; God created use for community and relationships. God never intended for you to be alone, or for you to try to do it all.
 
If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, frustrated and just plain worn out on a daily basis, why not take a look at your life and see if you have been trying to do everything on your own. If so, reach out. There is no shame is asking others for help. Once you do, your life will begin to look different.
 
Open up the floodgates-Sometimes, we just need to cry. When life throws you a curveball, know that it’s ok to cry and get it out. For many of us, we tend to believe that we need to hold it all in, to be strong. But this couldn’t be farther from the truth. It’s ok to cry, get it done and then move on.
 
So today, I give you permission to just allow the tears to flow freely and know that once you do, you will begin to feel a release like no other.
 
Focus on the how instead of the why-For many, when life takes a different path than what we would have liked, we spend so much time focusing on the why, when the reality is, we should be focusing on the how…How can I learn from this experience and use it for good in the future. Instead of consistently asking, “Why did this happen to me, why am I going through this”, etc., focus on how you can take what you have experienced to serve others and impact this world like never before.
 
View obstacles differently; challenges to greatness-Today, I want you to begin viewing the obstacles that you face differently. Instead of seeing them as these “annoying” things that you are having to go through, view those obstacles as challenges, challenges that will allow you to step into your greatness. Honestly, it all comes down to your mindset, how you will choose to think about the curveballs that come your way. Again, you have the opportunity to choose how you will respond to everything that comes your way. Begin today to see the good in every situation!
 
Your dream is worth pursuing-Lastly, if there is one thing I want you to know, it is that your dream is worth pursuing! God has given you specific dreams for a reason. Don’t allow the circumstances of your life to keep you from moving forward into the calling that God has placed on your life. Remember, when you choose to not follow the call on your life, the world is at a loss. God has given you specific gifts, skills, and talents so that you can impact this world like never before. Your dream is worth pursuing and God would love nothing more than to show up in some big ways in your life. Give Him the opportunity by choosing to step out in faith when He calls you!
 
Know today that I believe in you and want nothing more than to see you living life like never before. Know today that you are loved and though life may not have gone as you would have liked it to have gone, there is a future and hope for you. Don’t ever give-up; just keep pushing forward because God wants to move like never before!
 
Praying many blessings upon you!
Jen

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The most amazing feeling ever!

January 19, 2012

  "To find your purpose in life is the most amazing feeling and this is it."-Lisa Salem, Adoptive Parent A few years ago I had the opportunity to watch Dateline which showcased the story of an American Family that decided to adopt 6 Russian siblings who were in dire need of a home. As you [...]

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God Allows U-Turns!

January 16, 2012

    Today I have a special message for you. There is one thing that I want you to know beyond a shadow of a doubt and I want you to believe it with all of your heart because truly, I believe God wants you living in this truth…Our God is a God of second [...]

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Will you join me?

January 12, 2012

    I’m finding it hard to believe that it’s been nearly two years since my husband returned the cable box to the cable company. You see, just two years ago, we decided to start taking steps towards cutting back and what we noticed is that there were many things that we could cut back [...]

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You were meant to turn heads!

January 9, 2012

    Do you ever have one of those days where it just hits you? You look in the mirror and you decide, “I must get a haircut TODAY!”   I did this past weekend! Every few months it just hits me; I wake-up thinking that today is the day for a haircut, manicure and [...]

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My heartbreak…

January 5, 2012

    It happened three years ago, well a little over three years ago. It was December of 2008 and my husband and I were celebrating our 6-year anniversary at the Omni resort. By this point, we had been trying for a baby for a couple of months and while at the hotel, I decided [...]

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Set yourself apart…

January 2, 2012

I have to ask…did you make it to midnight on Saturday night? If you’ve been following me on Social Media, you will know that I made a confession…I can’t remember the last time I was able to stay up until midnight on New Year’s Eve. Those who know me well know that I am much [...]

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It’s Giveaway Time…

December 30, 2011

    In celebration of the New Year that is upon us, I’m ready for a giveaway! How does a FREE membership to the LifeChangers Connection Group sound? Here are the details:   1) Go tell as many of your friends on Social Media about this giveaway. Tell them to visit www.mysoulmission.org where they too [...]

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Jen’s Top 20 List: The Things I Know For Sure

December 29, 2011

I don’t know about you, but there are times in my life where I feel as though I am spilling over with confidence, strength, and motivation and then other days where I wonder if I really know and understand anything at all. Maybe you can relate. Today, I’m excited to share with you the top [...]

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